Been really busy lately, really. Not that I'm keeping myself inside my own world but instead I left it behind, go to the new world that is called social life. Well, my job as a publication partner for our school's fantastic event, PSCS 2012 stealth me to the world that requires how to build a strong relationship to others (and that damn relationship is not a romantic one, alhamdulillah) and how we get along with it. At first I wasn't such a social skill blessed, by mean I always tangled in front of the public. I didn't know how to speak to offer being the partner, I didn't know how to speak via phone or air mail, I didn't even know what MoU itself. I wonder why those people let me in.



But as the time went by, I realized that this had nothing to do with blessed or not; it is whether you want to learn or not. No one in this world born with the perfect social skill (I know there is someone hyper did, but can't we just pretend not) and how you get it is by yourself. One week I met with various people with various jobs made me trembling in my deathbed. Gasped; I used to recommend the wrong recommendation that brought me to the anger of my bosses. That didn't stop me, otherwise I tried to fix my mistakes and later I could beat my fear and even my juniors eagerly asked me to teach them.


I often heard why should be an anti social is because there's no one understands them. Well I guess it's because they can't interact well to each others. It is not a general subject that you can be taught by someone else. No, there is something you need to learn and experience it by yourself, and one is socialize. By doing it you learn. There's no reason to be an anti-social; whether you have a lot of enemies but trust me there's someone out there that is willing to hear any of your anguish! It just needs time but you can't help to resist the passion of being socialized.